Mom’s secret BDSM dominiatrix life shattered by kinky murder charge

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Stunning Michaela Brashaye Rylaarsdam lived a secret life as a BDSM queen who entertained men and fulfilled their bizarre fetishes.

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But that all came unglued when the California housewife was arrested and charged with murder in the death of a Saran Wrap enthusiast who was allegedly asphyxiated during a kink session.

According to cops, Michael Dale, 55, allegedly asked Rylaarsdam in 2023 to wrap him in a plastic covering “like a mummy” during the consensual BDSM session. The victim contacted the secret sex worker, 31, via an online escort ad.

“The evidence showed that he hired her to perform bondage acts and fetish acts,” Deputy District Attorney David Jarman told the San Diego Union-Tribune.

“There is no indication that he asked her to obstruct his breathing, asked her to put tape over his mouth, asked her to put a plastic bag over his head,” he added.

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In her so-called straight life, Rylaarsdam is a married mother who owns a stripper agency and OnlyFans page that she shares with hubby Brandon. The dom-in-training told detectives it was the first time she had engaged in fetish action.

The San Diego Union-Tribune reported that during the encounter on April 17, 2023, Dale allegedly asked Rylaarsdam to glue women’s boots to his feet and cover his head in a plastic bag. She was allegedly paid $11,000 for the carnal encounter.

Yet, the twisted details contrast greatly with the social media persona Rylaarsdam presents to the world. There are glowing photos of Rylaarsdam with her California-curated hubby Brandon.

Still, this isn’t Rylaarsdam’s first rodeo in the sex industry.

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Using the porn name Asshley Sincal, she starred with the full knowledge of her hubby in a slew of seedy porn loops. According to the Daily Mail, he even helped her build their sex-rated business. But that was all legal.

Murder is not.

Cops claim disturbing videos taken from the Dom’s phone showed Dale struggling to breathe for around eight minutes. Duct tape, a plastic bag and Saran Wrap cover the victim’s mouth. His arms and legs are also bound with plastic preventing him from saving himself.

Prosecutors allege that while Dale was unresponsive, Rylaarsdam performed a sex act on herself for her OnlyFans page — moments before she dialled 911. By then, it was too late and Dale was declared brain dead the next day.

Rylaarsdam has pleaded not guilty to the second-degree murder charge. Her lawyer said his client did not intend for Dale to die.

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Her husband Brandon, who appears in one of her promotional videos posted on X for her OnlyFans account, refused to comment when contacted by the Daily Mail.

The OnlyFans star is being held in jail without bail pending her trial.

On her escort page, she describes herself as an “upscale and classy creation that has been flawlessly designed and perfected over the 10 years of experience I have.”

“I am able to carry myself through an intellectual and stimulating conversation. Maybe you don’t want to talk but you want to experience the most intoxicating and provocative performance dedicated to you alone. Consider me the chameleon of this industry, able to redesign myself to your specific desires.” her page states.

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She modestly adds: “I am well-spoken, well-mannered, and beautiful. Everywhere I go people stop and stare because they think I look too beautiful to be another American and want to know what makes me famous.”

Rylaarsdam adds that it’s “very hard not to fall in love with me.”

She claims her specialty is lap dancing and she’s willing to have sex with men, women and couples and will travel for carnal capers.

“I am a non-judgmental person, so please bring on the fetishes. (I’m lactating since I breastfeed and I have beautiful feet with pretty toe rings). Happy to see couples, parties of all sizes, and private individuals.”

For top-of-the-line service – the Asshley Experience – she charges $1,200.

bhunter@postmedia.com

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